What the world calls
LOVE, is EARTHLY DESIRE!
Desire is an inherent condition.
However, we have the power to
create desire within us. As a
child we desire that which is sweet. We
desire our parents, they are our security.
We desire friends, they
entertain us. We desire to be on the team, it makes us popular. We
desire popularity, it gives an advantage. We desire sociality, we were
created to be sociable. We desire to affect others for the purpose of
influence/sway. We influence/sway others to fulfill our desire. We
encourage desire in ourselves as well as others. How?
Science gives us the answer.
There is a hormone called ‘oxytocin’
that is so powerful, that when subjected to it, it may/will change you
into a different person, becoming a slave, bonded to the person inducing
the oxytocin, becoming one with that person, male or female.
Bonding has been likened to
Velcro, going together quite easily, but tearing
the emotions apart in failure.
Oxytocin is the hormone than naturally bonds the
mother to her child. In the absence of oxytocin, or other negative
conditions, the mother may/will fail to bond. Bonding is not a given, it
is induced by an action.
Affection thru desire results in oxytocin being
produced, increasing our desire for mating. Mating thru desire is not
utopia. It will become inwardly
destructive in your life. It is not always the same for male
and
female.
Science determines the male
generally, but not always, produces less oxytocin and its effect is less
profound, however, remember, not always. After becoming one it becomes
impossible to make a Sound, Objective, or Unbiased evaluation of your
future relationship with that person. You have become subjected!
In the female, desire thru affection becomes very
strong, she surrenders, and a wave of oxytocin sweeps over her; she is
changed forever. The changed
person will bond to the other person, becoming one with that person,
male or female. The feelings of the male will be cheerful, while her
heart will not be gladdened, she will be troubled by her bonded desire.
Gen: 3.
Bonding thru desire, results in a feeling of ecstasy,
however, it does not satisfy the natural need for God’s Love in our
life. The flame of worldly desire soon grows dim, and dies.
Worldly love/desire is never satisfied!
The
search will continue!
Contrast – Two who are filled with
God’s Love, marry. Each serve
the other thru God’s Love, by eye, word, deed, and heart, and so by
doing, they become the servant of the one they serve, as well as, the
master of the one they serve. When thru love, you serve your spouse who
has love, by serving thru love, she/he will serve you in return, thru
love, each now becomes master and servant of the other.