The culture of today inundates us thru song,
television, internet, public education, media, etc. that woman in her
own right, in all aspects, is equal to man, with power to rule over man.
However, God created man and placed him in the ‘Garden of Eden’ to tend
the garden, and forbade him to eat of the ‘tree of knowledge of good and
evil’. God’s original intention was for man and woman to have no
knowledge of evil and, therefore, be capable only of ‘good’.
Man was alone, no helper could be found for him so, God created woman from
the rib of man, and presented woman to man as his helper. They were one,
the same flesh!
Woman knew of the evil fruit, and quoted to the serpent,
God’s command, ‘not to touch it’. Woman surrendered to temptation, ate
the fruit, gave some to her husband and he ate. Woman by her act ceased
to be mans helper, taking the dominant role of leader, over man. She, by
her action, has broken God’s will for her life, i.e. to be man’s helper.
God upon hearing from the mouth of man, who he created as leader, that
they had eaten the fruit, said to woman, ‘What have you done’, and woman
replied, ‘The serpent deceived me and I ate’. God replied to the woman,
‘Your desire will be for your husband (the man you are intimate with)
and he will rule over you’. Footnote NIV Bible. – desire-rule. Her
sexual attraction for the man, and his headship over her, will become
intimate aspects of her life in which she experiences trouble and
anguish rather than pure joy and blessing.
God did not deny woman,
thru sin, the power to take control of man. It is not the will of God
for woman to take control of man, as woman did in the Garden of Eden. An
intimate sinful act with man, brings to woman an emotional surrender
that she has never experienced or imagined, and an immediate bonding,
like super glue, which she has never desired or experienced before. The
intimate act becomes a god, an emotional bond to man. The bond
will/may result in woman supporting and defending man in his evilness.
When woman gives herself away, for whatever sinful purpose, ‘before its
time’, (God’s Time, proclaimed in the Bible) and the man has not devoted
his life in Christ to her, her emotional bond will forever be trouble
and anguish. When they part and walk away it isn’t over for her. She
may/will continually seek and search, giving herself away, again and
again, attempting to secure a bond and fulfill her emotional
desire/need, and by so doing, brings upon herself shame/disgrace,
destroying her self esteem, self worth and self value, as well as the
physical burden/pain of pregnancy, abortion, single parent, STD, etc.,
for years and life to come, and the two may/will never become one.
Science verifies that sex produces a rush of the hormone ‘oxytocin’ that
helps bond female and male. Science also believes testosterone in man,
may lessen the effects of oxytocin, resulting in little or no desire to
unrighteous bond.
Search
www.reuniting.info/science/oxytocin_health_bonding. God has a
plan for woman to get it right, and spare herself the mental sorrow, and
physical pain, associated with giving herself away to sinful, wayward
man. Read ‘The Righteous Bond’.