Do Not Arouse or Awaken Love until It So Desires. Read - Song of Songs, NIV Bible

There is a time for everything, and a season for every action under heaven. A time to embrace a time to refrain. A time to love a time to hate (Ecc. NIV).  Ingredients do not make a loaf/cake. Worldly emotions are not love. To harvest early ‘before its time’ is to destroy. Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires, before its time.

God has a life plan for his children. The world says, ‘Children make your own plan, let’s go shopping, let’s taste of the world’s produce and see for our self’. God’s plan for His child is a life of strength and happiness in him. To become his child we must surrender all, (body, mind, heart and soul) to Jesus and be redeemed thru him. God now has a plan for your life. The plan will be revealed to you by the Holy Spirit, as you learn the plan, by searching the Bible.

God’s plan includes a help mate/companion, male and female, as in creation, and that the two become one flesh. Reading we learn not to yoke the ox with the donkey, the Child of God and the child of the world. Remember, as you think you become, association produces likeness, birds of feather flock together. As a child of God you must remain pure, free from the sin of immorality, to claim his blessing of strength and happiness.

God’s plan forbids becoming attracted and tempted by the beauty of the flesh (as was Eve), and become tempted to associate, thereby, mixing the pure and the impure. You only have power to resist temptation when you are in His will and His will is that you not become attracted to the heathen.

Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires, before its season or time.

God has for his child, a sequential action plan, which will fulfill the desire/need for a help mate, Physical, Psychosocial, Commonality, and Bond. Physical – what the eye sees. Psychosocial – begin communicating. Commonality – dating. This is a casual process, orderly structured, whereby, the two begin a casual friendly association, a process of discovery between the two, with the same agenda. Worldly emotion is not love. A casual association learning if their chains of life are each made of gold. Un-likes reject. This is a lengthy journey. Every link/aspect of life, past and present, must be carefully examined/investigated. Each must make their own repairs, to the satisfaction of the other, for a damaged link to become acceptable. There can be no trade-off.  Two chains/lives joined, never become stronger than the weakest link. The future is as important as the past. Plan it carefully and wisely, as one.  No dissentions, no compromise, complete/total agreement. Do not arouse/awaken love before its time.
Lust/desire is not love, Eve and Adam yielded to desire, destroying all their righteousness, and received the punishment. Love cannot result in sin, nor the result of sin, be love. Sin is a false bond, righteousness is freedom. Do not arouse or awaken love before its season or time.
 
The Bond. Jesus said, ‘Man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’.  With God and each other, vow that each is no longer, I, my and me, and become us, our and we, God becoming the bond, joining the two lives together. Righteousness has prevailed and the reward, bonded to each other, in God’s name, before man, free to love, free to arouse and awaken love. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.

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