A great mystery, perhaps in days gone by, probably not such a mystery today.
We like to tie marriage to the mystery, when really, becoming ‘one’ has nothing do with the ceremony of marriage. Becoming ‘one’ has everything to do with an action.
When do we really become one? Is it when we see, smell, hear, or when we taste? It’s when we partake! However, once we taste and become one with another in the body, we are out of control. Our desire of the oneness now controls us, and we surrender our independence to the oneness of the created union, and will become bonded thereto, becoming a new person.
Jesus said, “The creator made them male and female. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and will be united to his wife (woman), and they will become one flesh”. Do we believe today, what Jesus said? No! We reject this Command just as Eve rejected God’s Command. Satan invites us to believe that we are greater than our creator.
We reject God, and we are not in control of the consequences of our action!
When did Eve and Adam become one in the flesh? It was not when they saw
or desired, it was, when they committed the sinful act of tasting. When
do we become one in the flesh? At the same time Adam and Eve did.
The sinful act is not so difficult to understand, as we like to make it. Eve was instructed by God what would happen, in her sentence for the sin she committed in the garden, and Jesus said, ‘partake and you will become one’. The sentence for her is applicable to us. How do we become one? When we have the same desire, aren’t we one and the same, in that desire? Like, we desire each other! We share our body/flesh with the other, and what happens! We have a feeling of ecstasy, like nothing we have ever experienced.
As a result of the euphoria experienced, God said, “you will bond, become one with the man and he will rule over you”(Gen. 3). We have, become addicted/bonded/one. Our desire for more is so strong, it will drive us thru a valley of despair, and on to climb the highest mountain, for that feeling of ecstasy again. The person who gives us the feeling, also, may/will have control over us, as a result of our desire to bond. Half of those who marry, divorce, they made the wrong choice, as set forth by God. It wasn’t marrying that made them that way, it was the sinful act. We can pray and ask for forgiveness, however, the price we must pay, may/will darken our sky for the rest of our life.
Science validates what God has decreed. Read it on the web.
www.reuniting.info/science/oxytocin_health_bonding