Love is God, God is love. Apart from God there is no Love. Love is Righteous. Love is from God. Love is immeasurable. Love cannot be manufactured in a person.
To be filled with Love (as a vessel is filled), and
become able to share love, it is necessary to obtain love from the
source. Jesus is the only source.
We like to believe, we are in control of our
feelings, like to believe we have the power to love, if we wish. Not
True. We have desire and we call it love. We yield our desire, and mix
with others desire, getting a feeling of bonding, and we call it love.
The feeling we get has nothing to
do with love, and everything to do with chemistry, as explained in the
topic DESIRE.. Chemistry of a person is the same if they are
righteous or unrighteous.
The feeling we get, thru Love or worldly desire
results in bonding. The bonding
results in family, and is ordained in Genesis 3.
If there were no bond, there
would be no family, and humanity would be as a herd.
Love is a gift from God.
There is
no other source. Marriage is ordained by God.
Love is righteous and is not to be mixed with
unrighteousness (sin), 2 Corinthians: 6, ‘Those who have love are not to
be yoked to the unrighteous, for what do righteousness and wickedness
have in common?’ This is a clear statement that if righteousness (a
person who has God’s love) attempts to attract wickedness (a person who
does not have love) sin has occurred, love has become worldly desire. We
are commanded to keep God’s gift of love righteous, before and after
marriage.
We are
not
to
deny our
spouse
the
physical expression of love, 1
Cor 7. Neither are we to demand
the physical act of love.
Never permit sin, thru imagination, desire, lust, pornography, etc., to
enter the physical expression of love. Sin
will destroy, it is a death knell for marriage.
The physical act of love, in marriage, is an act most
Holy. It is a moment when each surrenders, completely forgiving all, a
time when all negative feelings are forgiven and swept away.
Deny them to enter your marriage
again. In righteousness, from the act, two will emerge, as one in total
forgiveness, of the past, as new persons, joined together in God’s Gift
of Love. This is a Divine Experience, enriching our lives, bringing
fulfillment that cannot be attained outside God’s Marriage of Love.
Build your house on, Jesus Christ I Stand, all other
foundations are sinking sand. Practice Righteousness and the flame of love will never dim, becoming more
intense in years to come.